Change device list streams to have one row per ID (#7010)

* Add 'device_lists_outbound_pokes' as extra table.

This makes sure we check all the relevant tables to get the current max
stream ID.

Currently not doing so isn't problematic as the max stream ID in
`device_lists_outbound_pokes` is the same as in `device_lists_stream`,
however that will change.

* Change device lists stream to have one row per id.

This will make it possible to process the streams more incrementally,
avoiding having to process large chunks at once.

* Change device list replication to match new semantics.

Instead of sending down batches of user ID/host tuples, send down a row
per entity (user ID or host).

* Newsfile

* Remove handling of multiple rows per ID

* Fix worker handling

* Comments from review