Fixes #8550

Add option ```purge``` to ```POST /_synapse/admin/v1/rooms/<room_id>/delete```
Fixes: #3761

Signed-off-by: Dirk Klimpel <dirk@klimpel.org>

The Delete Room admin API allows server admins to remove rooms from server
and block these rooms.
`DELETE /_synapse/admin/v1/rooms/<room_id>`
It is a combination and improvement of "[Shutdown room](https://github.com/matrix-org/synapse/blob/develop/docs/admin_api/shutdown_room.md)" and "[Purge room](https://github.com/matrix-org/synapse/blob/develop/docs/admin_api/purge_room.md)" API.

Fixes: #6425 

It also fixes a bug in [synapse/storage/data_stores/main/room.py](synapse/storage/data_stores/main/room.py) in ` get_room_with_stats`.
It should return `None` if the room is unknown. But it returns an `IndexError`.
https://github.com/matrix-org/synapse/blob/901b1fa561e3cc661d78aa96d59802cf2078cb0d/synapse/storage/data_stores/main/room.py#L99-L105

Related to:
- #5575
- https://github.com/Awesome-Technologies/synapse-admin/issues/17



Signed-off-by: Dirk Klimpel <dirk@klimpel.org>