Part of #9744

Removes all redundant `# -*- coding: utf-8 -*-` lines from files, as python 3 automatically reads source code as utf-8 now.

`Signed-off-by: Jonathan de Jong <jonathan@automatia.nl&gt;`>

Part of #9366

Adds in fixes for B006 and B008, both relating to mutable parameter lint errors.

Signed-off-by: Jonathan de Jong <jonathan@automatia.nl>

Records additional request information into the structured logs,
e.g. the requester, IP address, etc.

 - Update black version to the latest
 - Run black auto formatting over the codebase
    - Run autoformatting according to [`docs/code_style.md
`](https://github.com/matrix-org/synapse/blob/80d6dc9783aa80886a133756028984dbf8920168/docs/code_style.md)
 - Update `code_style.md` docs around installing black to use the correct version

Ensure that we lock correctly to prevent multiple concurrent metadata load
requests, and generally clean up the way we construct the metadata cache.

We passed in a graph to `sorted_topologically` which didn't have an
entry for each node (as we dropped nodes with no edges).

We don't always need the full power of a DeferredCache.

We need to make sure we are readu for the `set_cache_factor` callback.

* Add `DeferredCache.get_immediate` method

A bunch of things that are currently calling `DeferredCache.get` are only
really interested in the result if it's completed. We can optimise and simplify
this case.

* Remove unused 'default' parameter to DeferredCache.get()

* another get_immediate instance

rather than have everything that instantiates an LruCache manage metrics
separately, have LruCache do it itself.

Closes: https://github.com/matrix-org/synapse/issues/6766

Equivalent Sydent PR: https://github.com/matrix-org/sydent/pull/309

I believe it's now time to remove the extra allowed `:` from `client_secret` parameters.

fixes #7016

First some background: StreamChangeCache is used to keep track of what "entities" have 
changed since a given stream ID. So for example, we might use it to keep track of when the last
to-device message for a given user was received [1], and hence whether we need to pull any to-device messages from the database on a sync [2].

Now, it turns out that StreamChangeCache didn't support more than one thing being changed at
a given stream_id (this was part of the problem with #7206). However, it's entirely valid to send
to-device messages to more than one user at a time.

As it turns out, this did in fact work, because *some* methods of StreamChangeCache coped
ok with having multiple things changing on the same stream ID, and it seems we never actually
use the methods which don't work on the stream change caches where we allow multiple
changes at the same stream ID. But that feels horribly fragile, hence: let's update
StreamChangeCache to properly support this, and add some typing and some more tests while
we're at it.

[1]: https://github.com/matrix-org/synapse/blob/release-v1.12.3/synapse/storage/data_stores/main/deviceinbox.py#L301
[2]: https://github.com/matrix-org/synapse/blob/release-v1.12.3/synapse/storage/data_stores/main/deviceinbox.py#L47-L51

* Pull Sentinel out of LoggingContext

... and drop a few unnecessary references to it

* Factor out LoggingContext.current_context

move `current_context` and `set_context` out to top-level functions.

Mostly this means that I can more easily trace what's actually referring to
LoggingContext, but I think it's generally neater.

* move copy-to-parent into `stop`

this really just makes `start` and `stop` more symetric. It also means that it
behaves correctly if you manually `set_log_context` rather than using the
context manager.

* Replace `LoggingContext.alive` with `finished`

Turn `alive` into `finished` and make it a bit better defined.

Ensure good comprehension hygiene using flake8-comprehensions.

... since the whole response is huge.

We even need to break up the assertions, since kibana otherwise truncates them.