Reformat all files with the new version.

Signed-off-by: Marcus Hoffmann <bubu@bubu1.eu>

This reverts commit 05e8c70c.

This basically speeds up federation by "squeezing" each individual dual database call (to destinations and destination_rooms), which previously happened per every event, into one call for an entire batch (100 max).

Signed-off-by: Jonathan de Jong <jonathan@automatia.nl>

Part of #9744

Removes all redundant `# -*- coding: utf-8 -*-` lines from files, as python 3 automatically reads source code as utf-8 now.

`Signed-off-by: Jonathan de Jong <jonathan@automatia.nl&gt;`>

 - Update black version to the latest
 - Run black auto formatting over the codebase
    - Run autoformatting according to [`docs/code_style.md
`](https://github.com/matrix-org/synapse/blob/80d6dc9783aa80886a133756028984dbf8920168/docs/code_style.md)
 - Update `code_style.md` docs around installing black to use the correct version

Run `isort`, `flake8` and `black` over the `contrib/` directory and `synctl` script. The latter was already being done in CI, but now the linting script does it too.

Fixes https://github.com/matrix-org/synapse/issues/7910

* Fix deprecation warnings due to invalid escape sequences.

* Add changelog

Signed-off-by: Karthikeyan Singaravelan <tir.karthi@gmail.com>

* update version of black and also fix the mypy config being overridden