Include event when resolving state for missing prevs

If we have a forward extremity for a room as `E`, and you receive `A`, `B`,
s.t. `A -> B -> E`, and `B` also points to an unknown event `X`, then we need
to do state res between `X` and `E`.

When that happens, we need to make sure we include `X` in the state that goes
into the state res alg.

Fixes #3934.