Use Postgres ANY for selecting many values.

Disable bytes usage with postgres

Fix python packaging

... after it got borked by #6081

Add more log context checks when patching inlineCallbacks

Co-Authored-By: Richard van der Hoff <1389908+richvdh@users.noreply.github.com>

This means that we can write queries with `col = ANY(?)`, which helps
postgres.

Fixes vector-im/riot-web#5645

This fixed the weirdness of 400 vs 404 as http status code in the case
the filter id is not known by the server.
As e.g. matrix-js-sdk expects 404 to catch this situation this leads
to unwanted behaviour.

Hopefully this will fix the occasional failures we were seeing in the room directory.

The problem was that events are not necessarily persisted (and `current_state_delta_stream` updated) in the same order as their stream_id. So for instance current_state_delta 9 might be persisted *before* current_state_delta 8. Then, when the room stats saw stream_id 9, it assumed it had done everything up to 9, and never came back to do stream_id 8.

We can solve this easily by only processing up to the stream_id where we know all events have been persisted.

you can't plausibly ALTER TABLE in sqlite, so we create the new table with the
right schema to start with.